Hearts racing, flesh tingling, hormones raging… … sounds good, huh? I agree, but there is more to Sex than the actual act [Whatever do you mean Stella?]. Well, the act is the physical part, but the beauty is the emotional attachment you have/share with the other person. When your heart races just seeing them, when your flesh tingles because they are holding your hand, or when your hormones rage as his/her special ring-tone sounds off. YES! That’s what I’m talking about.
Ladies, we know this feeling all too well, in fact, we chase it. Women typically chase the Emotion, while Men typically chase the Act. So, how do we meet halfway?
[I have no real clue!!! 
]
But, here’s my theory-Ladies, stop giving it up so easily! If more of us would stand firm in our beliefs that we deserve to be respected and that, THAT part of us IS really sacred, therefore worth something, what could they do? [Hmmm Stella, I don't know, what?] They would have NO choice but to accept our terms [The Guy: Woman! I have needs and I am not waiting FOREVER or even a WEEK for it!] No smiles here, shame on you! 
Guys, give us a break and learn to respect our parameters, our Love will last longer [But, the only thing I want to last forever Stella is the SEX!!! Pant Pant Pant...] Oh give me a break would you! Grow up fellas. Learn to value your ‘Frank-n-Beans and stop throwing your stuff away every chance you get!
Ladies, you have 2 choices, #1-either you learn to respect your body and see where this guy is headed, or you keep giving it up to random dudes in hopes to find Love [Yuk! Do you really wanna keep doing that? Guy after guy after guy after guy... Whooo! I'm dizzy just thinking about it!] Or, #2-Go ahead and take your chances with a guy who might only be there for the Sex or whatever else you DO for him [Especially if he has not even mentioned that he'd like to Marry you, or be married at all]
But, be careful Chica, just because he says it, doesn’t make it so [Also be careful with guys who say things like "You never know, some day, I don't know-we'll see"...as they may be code for game] Did you attempt to find out his goals after the first few dates? [No Silly! Don't ask him the first day you meet] Casually over dinner [that YOU pay for or COOK for him] talk about his goals.
Here is a DON’T-”So, are you enjoying your dinner?” …[blah, blah...more useless conversation ] then you say, “Well, there’s more where that came from, if you plan to marry me!” [I hope you know the Heimlich maneuver, because he's about to choke!]
Here is a DO: “So, are you enjoying your dinner?” …[more useless conversation ] then, ask- “Did you have a plan when you were young? If so, what was it?” [Guys Love to talk about themselves too ladies! If not, he may not be feeling you or he may not trust you YET] Learn to make a man feel comfortable and learn to ask leading questions, that are indirect. His response should tell you a great deal about him.
For example:
His response: “Well, I didn’t have a clue and I still don’t!” [Runnnnn!!! Oh, its your house! Dangit! You're stuck for a minute...]
His response: “Well, I didn’t then, but later in my early/mid twenties, I figured it out… I know that someday I’d like to be married after I get my business together…” [blah blah, something along those lines] Ok, now here’s a guy we can work with [No Woman! Don't go pullin' down your panties in the middle of dinner!] I said, he’s worth looking into, that means, see if his words equal his actions…watch and listen!
Ok, hope this helps… If not, you are a lost cause anyway! 
Just Kidding…
Well, Ciao for now Guys-n-Gals
Til’ next time,
S~
